What do we need to get married?
The mandatory requirements for a wedding in Massachusetts are:
Can we just elope?
Yes, but remember you need a valid Massachusetts marriage license and there is a three-day waiting period.
Do we need blood tests?
Blood tests are not required in Massachusetts.
Do we need any witnesses present at our ceremony?
No. Massachusetts law does not require that witnesses be present at your ceremony.
Do we need rings?
No. While they are traditional, rings are not required.
Can we select our own vows?
Absolutely. I have a number of samples available from which you may choose. If you prefer, you can write your own words.
Do we have to speak at the ceremony?
Only if you want to. Massachusetts law provides a lot of latitude in what is, and isn’t, required at wedding ceremonies. You can get away with as little as just saying, “I do.”
Can others be included in the ceremony?
Definitely. There are many ways to include family members and friends in the ceremony. For example, your loved ones can do readings, walk down the aisle, carry the rings, participate in a candle lighting, and more. There are unlimited possibilities.
Can we include both Christian and Jewish traditions?
Definitely, We can also include any other special traditions you desire, or we can omit any religious reference.
Where can the ceremony be held?
Anywhere you want – indoors, outdoors, or even at your home.
Do we have to hold a rehearsal?
A rehearsal is important if you are planning anything more than just a basic wedding. It gives everyone, not just the couple getting married, an opportunity to become familiar with their roles in the wedding ceremony. However, it is not a “must.”
What will I wear?
For more formal weddings, I usually wear a plain black robe over my suit. However, if you prefer, I can forego the robe and just wear business attire.
What happens after the ceremony?
After the wedding, there is nothing for you to sign, nor will you receive any documents (even though you are legally married).
You will not automatically receive an official copy of your Certificate of Marriage. You must apply for this with the Town Clerk or City Clerk where you applied for your license. There is usually a nominal charge (about $10 to $15, varying by town) for each copy.
Officiants are not permitted to give you a copy. Instead, they are required (by law) to complete the Certificate of Marriage and mail it back to the Town Clerk or City Clerk from whom you obtained your license.
Can I renew our vows?
Yes. I have several ceremonies for those who want to celebrate a renewal of their vows.
The mandatory requirements for a wedding in Massachusetts are:
- The two people intending to get married
- The officiate
- A valid marriage license.
Can we just elope?
Yes, but remember you need a valid Massachusetts marriage license and there is a three-day waiting period.
Do we need blood tests?
Blood tests are not required in Massachusetts.
Do we need any witnesses present at our ceremony?
No. Massachusetts law does not require that witnesses be present at your ceremony.
Do we need rings?
No. While they are traditional, rings are not required.
Can we select our own vows?
Absolutely. I have a number of samples available from which you may choose. If you prefer, you can write your own words.
Do we have to speak at the ceremony?
Only if you want to. Massachusetts law provides a lot of latitude in what is, and isn’t, required at wedding ceremonies. You can get away with as little as just saying, “I do.”
Can others be included in the ceremony?
Definitely. There are many ways to include family members and friends in the ceremony. For example, your loved ones can do readings, walk down the aisle, carry the rings, participate in a candle lighting, and more. There are unlimited possibilities.
Can we include both Christian and Jewish traditions?
Definitely, We can also include any other special traditions you desire, or we can omit any religious reference.
Where can the ceremony be held?
Anywhere you want – indoors, outdoors, or even at your home.
Do we have to hold a rehearsal?
A rehearsal is important if you are planning anything more than just a basic wedding. It gives everyone, not just the couple getting married, an opportunity to become familiar with their roles in the wedding ceremony. However, it is not a “must.”
What will I wear?
For more formal weddings, I usually wear a plain black robe over my suit. However, if you prefer, I can forego the robe and just wear business attire.
What happens after the ceremony?
After the wedding, there is nothing for you to sign, nor will you receive any documents (even though you are legally married).
You will not automatically receive an official copy of your Certificate of Marriage. You must apply for this with the Town Clerk or City Clerk where you applied for your license. There is usually a nominal charge (about $10 to $15, varying by town) for each copy.
Officiants are not permitted to give you a copy. Instead, they are required (by law) to complete the Certificate of Marriage and mail it back to the Town Clerk or City Clerk from whom you obtained your license.
Can I renew our vows?
Yes. I have several ceremonies for those who want to celebrate a renewal of their vows.